Okay. Here is my solution.
First of all VMware has no solution for the problem yet. It will be fixed in a later release as the support wrote. Which one they could not tell.
We did it the following way:
I downloaded the latest version of the missing patch/vib to a shared datastore that is available to all the affected hosts.
Then I logged on via SSH to the affected hosts and installed it manually.
I had to install only the one that is the latest version then all others were gone too.
The line to enter in my case:
esxcli software vib update -v /vmfs/volumes/yourshareddatastore/intel-nvme-vmd-en_2.6.1.1001-1OEM.700.1.0.15843807_17797370/vib20/intel-nvme-vmd/INT_bootbank_intel-nvme-vmd_2.6.1.1001-1OEM.700.1.0.15843807.vib
Reference for the step by step guide is:
https://kb.vmware.com/s/article/2008939