Software RAID is not supported for ESX/ESXi 4. You need HARDWARE RAID in order to get the array to be recognized by the installer, and as datastores. Also, the ICH10 controller is supported, but NOT as a RAID controller. So, basically, until you get a true HARDWARE RAID controller/card, you're stuck with the drives being presented as lone devices.
There are HCL's out there for ESX/ESXi for a reason. If your drive controller isn't listed as being supported as a hardware RAID, then you're not going to be able to present RAID volumes for ESX/ESXi to use. Just thinking that you can install ESX/ESXi onto any 'server' you get your hands on will only lead to trouble. Either it won't install due to the drive controller, ethernet controller, or several other components.
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