a very quick glance, i see i the SSD disk i put in for cache isn't even preferred for this function as its the the PCIe flash card type. that's funny!
i'll start to keep an eye on the statistics, more than my normal, but i suspect, as this is a home test/experiment type ESXi setup, i wont see much need for this cache --- now that i understand it better via all of your replies and your pdf link. most are linux VMs and one win2008r2 server &h swap files stored with respective VM. no databases per se except a tiny mysql just for personal goofing about.
guess it wouldn't hurt to allocate same amount of host RAM to SSD cache and be done with it. its only 64GB ssd drive.
i really learned a lot here folks, thanks much for replying and helping.