From https://kb.vmware.com/s/article/1007566
"There is no way to stop or cancel the consolidation process without risking data corruption. Do not attempt to create a new snapshot on the consolidating virtual machine."
What you can do, is to monitor the VM's files to see whether they get modified, using the command in the mentioned KB article.
watch -d 'ls -luth | grep -E "delta|flat|sesparse"
If you do have active support with VMware, you may consider to open a support case for this.
André