As a Windows tech going way back to early 90's, I have seen many an OS come and go. I have seen many flashes by some OS, but then they just die on the vine, with no reason and they seem to get stalled at some point
OS/2
NextWave
BeOS (yes it may still be here, but not developed)
And a few others I can't remember.
The point is, only one stands out, and I really hate to say it (or prove it) but it appears to be true even NOW.
Windows has stood the test of time, case in point. NFS. Windows supports NFS v4. Windows can host NFS data, we don't see this performance degradation on Hyper-V VM's running even unsupported Redhat (Hyper-V supports SUSE).
So now where are we? People bash Microsoft, for many things, you can say whatever you want, but even Linux has some shortcomings for many things, and when they get a stable OS, they forget the rest of the OS and don't care if it's completely done.
Windows has never stalled, maybe it hasn't been great, had a few black eyes, but it didn't stop MS from getting better. Windows Me and Windows Vista (maybe Dos 4) were horrible OS, but Windows 7 / XP have been the most stable and powerful to date. So when these things don't work in an Enterprise product like ESX I have to question what they are thinking?
Microsoft is just looking for ANY excuse to eat their lunch. Apparently VM Ware is content with that, because like you said.. NFS v4 isn't supported, and why not? It's been out a while. Why are we stuck with 2TB LUN limits.. Windows isn't, LUN yes, but ESX has limits for the number of 2TB LUN it can have.. WHY?!? Windows has very high limits well beyond what ESX can handle, so what I don't understand is what gives? I have to believe they are happy (or complacent with their CURRENT) Virtualization ranking, because it won't last much longer if this keeps up.
I am not a Apple fan (not against it either) but many people complain that there is no VI client for Apple, I am not for or against this argument, but certainly even Microsoft has Apple software, what does that tell you? MS seems to listen to their customers, VM Ware is concerned only with their own agenda, it's becoming more and more clear.