Thanks for the link. I'd read it. I feel like I've read everything on jumbo frames and esx in the last few days. My vswitches and vmknic and switches all say that Jumbo Frames is enabled. As I said, I used the EqualLogic MEM installer and specified MTU of 9000. It seemed to set it up correctly.
Strangely, I've got a Windows 2008 R2 virtual machine running which has a vmxnet3 interface on the storage network. It has to be using the very same NICs to connect, and it logs in to the EqualLogic with jumbo frames just fine, so that assures me that the switches are working. I would think that the vmk's are working right, but I don't know if the iSCSI requests from VM's go through those vmk interfaces.
FYI, here's the INFO log from the array showing the VM connecting to the EqualLogic which shows that the VM connects using Jumbo Frames:
Level: INFO
Time: 5/9/11 9:19:08 AM
Member: flute
Subsystem: MgmtExec
Event ID: 7.2.14
iSCSI login to target '192.168.235.104:3260, iqn.2001-05.com.equallogic:0-8a0906-787dbc502-ff9000ee7fc4c1a6-sqldata' from initiator '192.168.235.14:58448, iqn.1991
-05.com.microsoft:vcenter.mydomain.com' successful, using Jumbo Frame length.
and here the INFO log for the ESXi host that this VM is running on logging in earlier:
Level: INFO
Time: 5/7/11 8:48:18 PM
Member: flute
Subsystem: MgmtExec
Event ID: 7.2.47
iSCSI login to target '192.168.235.101:3260, iqn.2001-05.com.equallogic:0-8a0906-4768c0a03-4d67da799124dc2d-vmwareservers' from initiator '192.168.235.220:56211,
iqn.1998-01.com.vmware:blade2-095bfd6c' successful using standard-sized frames.
NOTE: More than one initiator is now logged in to the target.
Level: INFO
Time: 5/7/11 8:48:18 PM
Member: flute
Subsystem: MgmtExec
Event ID: 7.2.47
iSCSI login to target '192.168.235.101:3260, iqn.2001-05.com.equallogic:0-8a0906-4768c0a03-4d67da799124dc2d-ncnrservers' from initiator '192.168.235.220:56211,
iqn.1998-01.com.vmware:blade2-095bfd6c' successful using standard-sized frames.
NOTE: More than one initiator is now logged in to the target.