100% in agreement with cdodson2.
We were running the original Netxen cards, followed by the HP version (NC522) and experiencing these drop outs.
HP were unable to provide us with a method to upgrade the firmware on these cards, and we had to remove the cards from ESX hosts, put in a Windows box to upgrade firmware to "fixed" version (4.0.516) and then put back in to ESX hosts. This version of firmware gave us "IO ROM Error" so we had to repeat these steps to upgrade to the 4.0.520 version - this is still causing us "drop out" problems. All a bit of a headache.
cdodson2, can you advise on which card you ended up going for, and your experiences?
Many thanks
Richard