Yes that is what I was talking about -
You can control the placement of virtual machines on hosts within a cluster by using affinity rules.
You can create two types of rules.
VM-HOST Affinity - Used to specify affinity or anti-affinity between a group of virtual machines and a group of hosts. An affinity rule specifies that the members of a selected virtual machine DRS group can or must run on the members of a specific host DRS group. An anti-affinity rule specifies that the members of a selected virtual machine DRS group cannot run on the members of a specific host DRS group.
VM-VM Affinity - Used to specify affinity or anti-affinity between individual virtual machines. A rule specifying affinity auses DRS to try to keep the specified virtual machines together on the same host, for example, for performance reasons. With an anti-affinity rule, DRS tries to keep the specified virtual machines apart, for example, so that when a problem occurs with one host, you do not lose both virtual machines.
Ceck out the Resource Management Guide - http://pubs.vmware.com/vsphere-50/topic/com.vmware.ICbase/PDF/vsphere-esxi-vcenter-server-50-resource-management-guide.pdf Page 75 for more information -