thanks guys for your help,
yesterday I spent all the day reading about vCenter (I got Headache)
I have installed it twice,
one on windows server 2008, and the other is OVA (both of them are guests on the ESXi server)
ok now I am able to access vCenter server through vSpher web client (talking about the one with windows server),
but how to link this server to the ESXi server and retrieve all its information so I can manage the host and the guests ???
I failed to do that,,,
by the way I am not using active directory !! will that be a problem ??
thanks a lot,