As mentioned, you can use vCenter to administer and monitor your resources and alarms with connections, CPU and memory nicely and set to send email notification if you want. If you have time spend some readings on vSphere Resource Management Guide here
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Stefan Nguyen
VMware vExpert 2009
iGeek Systems Inc.
VMware, Citrix, Microsoft Consultant