Tried using VMXNET3 and VMXNET2 with no luck.
Same here, no luck either. I did read that basically the OS is suspended, but the WOL packet never really gets enabled in a VM. It's been a bug for a couple of revisions now, but I have never seen an actual post that anyone has it working yet. I have searched on google a lot, didn't spend much time, but I have yet to see one incidence that it was working.. on ESX at least.
I still think its a problem. People aren't making waves about it, so apparently it's not a big deal.. but it COULD be an issue, especially since it would be nice to have people power on their own VM's without access to the console if WOL worked properly.