From what I remember reading, there was an issue becuse eaxctly what you said - it was not on the Dell list. It didnt matter what I did, it would no boot from the drives attched to the RAID device, I had to install a pair of small drives on the on board software raid controller and then it let me install Widnows in the Adaptec RAID controller. Note, becuse of that, I could not use ESXi and was forced to run Windows straight on the hardware (no ESXi involved).
Once the BIOS upgrade came out, I was able to get rid of the on board softraid junk and install ESXi on the Adaptec 6405e contolled drives. That setup works great!
Note, I used this site to add the Adaptec drivers to the initial boot image / ESXi install-ISO:
ESXi-Customizer
http://www.v-front.de/p/esxi-customizer.html
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