Hey, it certainly helps and that's how i was hoping it worked, thanks for confirming it!
My issue has been resolved and came down to that the ESXi-server was insisting on using vmnic0 (also vmk0) which is a 1GB adapter for management traffic even though it (vmnic0) had no vmk adapter configured to handle management and despite the fact that i had a different (10G) adapter configured to handle management. This meant that all traffick to/from the ESXi went through the 1GB vmnic.
I set up a new Port Group connected to a 10GB adapter and pointed vmk0 there and re-enabled management on it. I now have 2 management vmk adapters, each connected to a 10GB NIC. Backup traffic is now 10GB and with jumbo frames, so I'm happy.
I'm particularly happy to have discovered i perf in ESXi, using it together with iperf for windows on my backup server to verify transfer speed helped A LOT!
Thanks again for the help!