It sounds like (but I may be wrong) you're trying to increase the capacity of the disk with the OS installed on. I assume using vmkfstools -x?
If so you need so use a winPE boot disc, I use BartPE, with disk partition tools included.
Then select ‘Go | System | Storage | Disk part’.
Using the command line, select the correct Disk and partition. Use the expand command then list the volumes to make sure it has picked up the new size.
Power-up the VM and wait for it to confirm the new hardware device and restart when it prompts.
OS disk is now the new size.
If I've got the wrong end of the stick here just ignore the above :smileywink: