Hello LucFullenwarth,
I looked at the second link you provided: Using the CLI to add or configure SSO identity sources in vSphere 6.5 & 6.7 (67304); it explains how to enable either Adding Active Directory (Windows Integrated Authentication), Adding AD over LDAP, Adding AD over LDAP using LDAPS (LDAP over SSL) or Adding Open LDAP using command line; they are the same configuration settings available on web GUI (nothing else).
It seems choosing the first method, it uses SASL (Negotiate/Kerberos/NTLM/Digest) LDAP bind without requesting signing. This is confirmed by the value "Binary Type: 0" contained in the event id 2889 on Domain Controller (thank you LucD for sharing the second link).
So, if it won't be possible to enable SASL with signature in VMware, the only way is to use the third method (Adding AD over LDAP using LDAPS).
Maybe you already know, however I share this useful blog article from Secure Infrastructure team at Microsoft explaining the LDAP Signing: Step by Step: Enforce Require LDAP Signing on domain controllers. Part 1.
Please, let us know any information from VMware support.
Thank you,
Luca