Hello pineapplehead,
Yes, 'Unbalanced' or 'Asymmetric' stretched-clusters are supported (in vSAN 6.6) - but of course this needs to be configured properly and within reason.
This is achieved via what is essentially data locality settings via Storage Policies - PFTT (Primary Failures To Tolerate) and SFTT (Secondary Failures To Tolerate).
Some good resources on this:
yellow-bricks.com/2017/07/30/unbalanced-stretched-vsan-cluster/
blogs.vmware.com/virtualblocks/2017/04/18/pm-hub-better-site-protection-stretched-clusters/
storagehub.vmware.com/#!/vmware-vsan/vsan-stretched-cluster-2-node-guide/configure-stretched-cluster-site-affinity-1
Bob