There isn't anything like this today. I asked my SE the same question and got the same answer.
I've since requested a feature enhancement for the same data to be shown in the NSX Ruleset UI.
As a workaround for this I've been using vRealize Log Insight using the following approach.
There is a pre-built Log Insight content pack for VMware - NSX-vSphere for Log Insight. If you install this content pack, there is a sub-section for Distributed Firewall - Overview, which contains a "Top Rule Hit Count" based on Rule ID along with some other info.
I like to know more than just the Rule ID for what's being hit so I went one step further with a custom dashboard.
Create a Log Insight query to pull in the dfwpktlogs (the appname for all of the NSX DFW logs), grouped by a value that is unique per rule. This can be done by grouping by the NSX Rule ID for example (keeping in mind that if you have more than a single NSX deployment logging to Log Insight Rule IDs could overlap). To get around this, I have all of my NSX DFW rules set to log and have tagged each one individually with a unique name specific to the NSM Manager and "Rule Name" (i.e. VC1_ALLOW_WEB_to_DB). This also saves me from having to flip back and forth between Log Insight and the NSX Rules to see what each Rule ID is doing.
Once the Log Insight query is pulling in all of the dftpktlogs and I know tagging and logging is all set up, I "Group by" the results by vmw_nsx_firewall_ruleid and vmw_nsx_firewall_tag. Make sure to also change the "Grouped by" view from being Over-Time to Non-time Series and the count filter is set to "Count of events". Last thing is the change the "Chart Type" to Table.
This will create a table of the NSX tags and a count of how many times they've each been hit over the time range specified in the query. That said, there is a limitation in the number of items that show up in the table view. If i look back at my last three months of data, the bottom most "Rule/line" in my table has a hit count of 3500+. This means data won't show if there are more than 100 or so DFW rules in the query.
There are was around this as well, but it's already a convoluted process to get information that should be in the NSX UI anyway
Hope this helps