I should have split post as this was first issue about volume not able to clear partition.. It is more about it having a lock of some ilk that "reboot fixes" Which is very not desirable.
But the real end goal is a clean vSAN updated version. And that lead down other two rat holes
1) Orphaned objects
2) Upgrade Disk to latest version (failing due to object issues.
Is there a means after running a single object delete to validate replica state .. or do some form of check validation?
The thought in replication to disk groups / server pools is N+X where X in my design is +1
Ex: of first object in list with issue

d48fd262-e480-2ab0-5434-a0423f35e8ee
The object is on one server that is live, heathy, and the physical disk is present and heathy.

But the replica is "Unknown disks" with out any note of node or target.
What would be prefered is to have it move these chunklet / objects into some kind of "garbage mode" where they could be retrieved.
Or to back trace the "Unknown disks" to where the clean up could be done with better confidence of what VM it would effect. (though I realize this is at lower level then a VM.
My concern is I delete it. And I have no means to run check that it will re-validate current VMs that their supporting objects are within replication.. and deletion unknowingly kicked leg out from under a VM and I won't know.
Maybe run a scan job. Or storage vMotion VMs.. some means to "validate" VM is back with N+X replication.