Tnx. VC membership updates value is "0" on all 3 hosts.
But I found this in the log. I anonymized the server names:
server1.somecompany.org is vSAN datanode #1
server2 the other
server3 is the witness.
2022-04-08T10:32:09.424+02:00 ERROR vsan-mgmt[14611] [VsanVcClusterHealthSystemImpl::_checkUnicastConfigIssues opID=074ffc34] Unicast info 169.254.253.183 was not found on host server1.somecompany.org
2022-04-08T10:32:09.424+02:00 ERROR vsan-mgmt[14611] [VsanVcClusterHealthSystemImpl::_checkUnicastConfigIssues opID=074ffc34] Unicast info 169.254.253.181 was not found on host server2.somecompany.org
Nothing about server 3 (witness) but then again, it only complains that the two datanodes have an out-of-sync network config.
These two cluster-nodes use dual vSAN vmk's, the second one in network 169.254.253.0/24 so that is what the error is about.
server1's second vSAN vmk has IP-address 169.254.253.181
server2's second vSAN vmk has IP-address 169.254.253.183
the error seems to be that both servers cannot find unicast info on the other node's second vSAN vmk.
The first and orginal vSAN vmk is in a 10.223 network and in a different VLAN. So somehow, since the upgrade, it's not happy about the second vSAN vmk anymore (granted, it is on an unusual network).
I simply disabled the vSAN service on both server's second vSAN vmk and viola, the error is gone. When I re-enable vSAN on them, the error comes back.
So it seems 7.0 U3c has an issue with that second vSAN vmk now. Or maybe it started to dislike people using 169.254.x.x networks?(which, again, is an unusual thing to do in this context)
(customer told me they chose that ip-range because the network team refused to give them a new VLAN and normal IP-adresses for the second vSAN vmk's, Dual vSAN vmk's worked fine, all the way to 7.0 U2b which was the version this cluster was upgraded from).
Note: not seeking a discussion about the pro's and con's of having dual vSAN vmks. I know of many clusters that have this, incl. U3c versions but they all use normal networks for them, not in 169.254 APIPA ranges.