Hi Jamie,
1 - Physical RDMs cannot be migrated. Consider converting the Physical RDM into a VMDK or change compatibility mode to virtual.
2 - Migration performance is down to many factors, such as storage, host resources, bandwidth, packet loss, latency, data churn rate, number of disks, size of disks etc etc. I've seen as much as 1 Gbps on 10 Gbps using vMotion and bulk migration but again, it depends on multiple factors. YMMV, you'd have to perform some testing to be sure.
3 - Outside of VMware products nothing springs to mind, however do bear in mind products such as SRM and vSphere Replication would have the same Physical RDM limit.
Hopefully this helps.