Found two ways , how to add the vmware wddm video driver per script for windows 2008 r2 sp1
Solution one by pnputil
http://integritycomm.blogspot.com/2010/10/vsphere-client-console-mouse-is-slow-to.html
@echo off
IF NOT EXIST "c:\program files\common files\vmware\drivers\wddm_video\vm3d.inf" GOTO:EOF
pnputil -i -a "c:\program files\common files\vmware\drivers\wddm_video\vm3d.inf"
shutdown /r /f /c "VMware vSphere WDDM Video Driver Update" /t 1
Solution two by dpinst.exe
http://communities.vmware.com/message/1808886
Easiest way I found to fix this was to use DPInst.exe which can be found in the Windows Driver Installation Kit --
http://www.microsoft.com/download/en/details.aspx?displaylang=en&id=11800
Once you've download the ISO install the \WDK\dfx*.msi. This will install DPInst.exe into some obscure directory on your C:\
To fix the issue just copy DPInst.exe to the drivers\wddm_video folder on the VM and run 'DPInst.exe /s /f /se /sw'.
This will silently force the install of the wddm driver.
All thats needed after that is a reboot.
Solution three by devcon
http://www.thesystemsengineer.com/technical/windows-2008-r2-wddm-video-driver-script/
Is there a powershell way ?