I have the same issue. Workstation V17, 3 of 4 weeks of
evaluation time gone and still no working solution.
Host = 8 cores, 3.4 GHz, 16 GB RAM , 48 GB swap partition, all on SSDs,
Debian 12 Linux (Bookworm) Display automatically chosen from 2540 * 1400 or so.
Guest = Win10 pro X64 current, "upgraded" from Win7.
It is impossible to install vmware tools for good & ever. After every reboot
there are complaints "No 3D available - install VMware tools" . Doing so brings
some improvement, still not great. The error beep can be stretched to a
10 seconds burp sometimes.
This machine worked OK since Workstation 12, after conversion to Win10
temporariily on the current player. Some 5 weeks ago, the player
turned unstable, developping the ability to even sink Debian 12 with
OutOfMemory. It felt like a swapping problem, though the disk LED would
light only every few seconds. Just leaving the Windows guest alone for
some hours can provoke problems while the Debian host is still alive
and fast as usual. Compatibilty to V16.2 or 17 makes no difference.
I'm fed up enough that this eval period may mark the end of vmware for me.