I can't comment on the 3ware card as I haven't used one. I don't see it as an option on Dell's configurator?
But anyway, looking at Dell direct, US $ 2,400 will buy a hot-plug T310 with X3440, 8GB as 2x 4GB, perc-6i, 4x 500gb hot-plug drives, redundant PSUs, iDRAC, dual-port nic, 3yr on-site.
Whatever you go for, make sure the RAM is specified to leave as many empty slots as possible, as 8GB will likely be the restricting factor with this box. Especially if you're purchasing vSphere (and with support), it is also important that the server is vmware certified too.
If more Windows servers are planned in the near future, besides needing more RAM, it may also be worthwhile to get an OEM 2k8r2 Enterprise license with the box.