Hi,
if You want to monitor Write Rate for all virtual disks of this VM, select name of this VM in Chart Options>Virtual Disk>Select object for this chart.
On the screenshot You are monitoring ide0 controller. Why did You select ide0:0? Usually VMs are using scsi controllers for vDisks.
Refering to Exchange Server VM. I think You should see any performance chart activity when VM's writing anything to database, but to be sure check Exchange write operations characteristic and how it's using its database in documentation first.