vSphere include a latency setting, but the stand alone client doesn't. How can I set that with the vSphere stand alone client?
Are you talking about the SIOC latency settings?
If so, thats because SIOC is only relevant for clusters...
http://www.vmware.com/files/pdf/techpaper/Whats-New-VMware-vSphere-51-Performance-Technical-Whitepaper.pdf
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