You can have hardware and software initiators active at the same time.
If you go to your configuration tab on your host, then storage adapters; you will get a list of all the adapters. Each adapter will be assigned a vmhbaXX address. If you do not have any hardware initiators then the software initiator will be vmhba33 by default I think. So if you do have hardware initiators that ESX recognizes, then they will appear in this list.
If you read the walkthrough I posted in my earlier reply you will find a guide showing how to;
1) Create the iSCSI switch
2) Bind the iSCSI adapter to each pNIC
3) Modify the MTU size
4) Configure load balancing
Even though this walkthrough is for a P4000, on the ESX side of the instructions it will still hold true no matter what your storage device is.
I'm glad I could be of assistance!
Regards,
Paul Kelly
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