Good topic.
I had the same issue where disk provisioning was Greyed out .
In my case it was because someone provisioned an IDE disk with the VM as opposed to a SCSI disk.
I was able to get arround the issue by using Converter as mentioned above.
When you get the options Screen in Converter
- Edit the Devices > for "Disk Controller" Drop down and select "Scsi Bus Logic".
- If you want to set the size of the Disk at the same time, you can edit the "Data to copy" > Select "Data copy type" and drop down to "Select Volumes to copy" > Change the "Destination Size" for the disk that you want to increase
Hope this helps someone.