Always go with the storage vendor's recommendation. The VMware recommendation is based on generic array characteristics (controller failover methods, ALUA-capable, etc). The storage vendor's recommendation is based on their performance and compatibility testing. You may want to consider their recommendations carefully, however, to be sure that each point is what you want.
With the 8000, I have run with Round-Robin. It is the most robust pathing option available to you from a performance and failover standpoint, and can provide the most even performance across the ports on the storage controller.
While I have not done specific testing/validation, the last time I looked at the docs, the HP configuration recommended that you setup each I/O to switch ports in the configuration. This adds load to the ESX host, performing the switch across ports, but HP claims their testing showed that this was the optimal configuration. This was the only setting that I questioned in their recommendation.
If you haven't already, make sure you download the HP doc on configuring ESX and EVA arrays. It has several settings that you should configure in addition to the path policy, as well as some scripts to help with making the changes.
Happy virtualizing!
JP
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